Can i make him want to marry me?

This is between the two of you. Nobody on here can answer this for you. If he doesn't want to get married then you'll have to decide what to do. Can't you just talk to him about it. Sit down or write a note to him and let him know that you really want to be married and with him forevr. Tell him you'd like him to consider it and to let you know why not if he's not willing to do that. You deserve to know where he stands.